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Would she like to be more then friends?

So I'm in a part time job and there's this girl that I work with sometimes. Shes 17 and I'm 16, and we became friends straight away. We went out today to a coastal town where we had a look in some shops and had a walk along the beach etc. She took quite a few photos of me and her together (although she generally takes quite a few pictures of things). She also said she might have one of the photos framed as she already had ones of numerous family members and her best friend. The other day she invited me to a barbeque which mainly consisted if her family and neighbours and so today she asked me what I thought of her family. We had ice cream today and I got some of it on my face, she tried wiping it off with her finger. When she said goodbye she hugged me and said she'd had a great day. Lately we do seem to be getting closer with her starting to share her problems with me etc. I don't know if she is interested because usually whenever we go on msn it's me who starts the conversations and sometimes she doesn't reply, but when she doesn't she always tells me she wasn't ignoring me. She has said in the past that shes not looking for a relationship with anyone, but that was quite a few months ago when we were still little more then coworkers. Does she want to be more then friends? And should I let her know about how I feel? I know it's a long question but please help!

Public Comments

1. It depends. If she said she doesn't want a relationship then she might not still want one. Maybe she is just looking for a good guy friend. Sometimes girls do that, and that's when it gets complicatd cause the guy thinks they are looking for something more. umm sorry i've not been of much help. Just sayin
2. Im in the same position, except im 17 and shes 18. We get on really really well, and we both have the same sense of humour - I just can't bring myself to tell her as I can't figure out if shes looking for something more than friendship. I know I'm contradicting myself now, but the only way you're going to find out if she truly likes you is by telling her how you feel - if she likes you then great, if she doesn't then she should understand if she is a good friend. You will only regret it and wonder what could have been if you don't say anything. After telling you all that I guess that means I should probably go and tell the girl I like about how I feel too :D
3. well im the exact same situation except im a girl lol and he's 16 and im 17! haha but im really falling for him he's my childhood friend and we always talk and love being together he even admitted it to me that he'd rather talk with me than have sex or be with some other girl...i kinda don't what to say about that lol but i said thank you. anyway, i'm not gona tell him i have feelings for him because when we talk about relationships, he always says "the boys should chase the girls. u just need to wait, unless it's eating you up...then you have no choice." so if you can't handle keeping these feelings in anymore, i think that's when you need to tell her. don't wait for the "right time" the right time is when you feel you need to tell her and it's never too late to tell her, it's only to late if she's gone out of your life for good. just look for signs or hints that she may like you more than a friend, the looks, the way she acts around, what she speaks about and if she's become more shy. good luck xxx
4. she's just shy.but tell her how you feel about her then take it from there
5. hiya,she as given you so many hints,and you have not responded to her,so she does not know if you like her,enough to go out with.it will not be long,before she gets fed up of waiting for you, to ask her out.so if you like her,then ask her out.she will not wait much longer.good luck.xx