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My coworkers hate me!!!!?

I've been reading through the Answer columns and decided to post a question that pertains to my particular situation. I been at my current job for about six months now and there is one particular girl I work with who doesn't like me, I will name her Exhibit A. There are two other girls that work there too and all three hang out together. I pretty much get along with one of the girls because she is the nicest, and I will name her Exhibit B. I have a feeling that Exhibit C doesn't like me either but she smiles in my face. It seems like Exhibit A is gossiping to the other two girls down talking me and things. Since my first day all three girls seem to have some sort of animosity towards me for no reason. Not to be shallow or anything but I am more attractive than them and dress very nicely. I keep to myself and I don't gossip about other people. I just do my work and go home. They are the type of girls that steal company time talking. Since I keep to myself and don't talk much, I guess I gave them the impression that I am a snob or something which is totally from the truth. It seems as if they are trying to mob on me or something. Exhibit A would make snide comments in the background. Right now I just ignore her but tomorrow I am thinking about saying something to her about it. I refuse to change jobs because you can't get away from annoying coworkers. So what should I do to make my work environment more pleasant? What can I do about these girls talking behind my back? Should I talk with our supervisor? Any why are women so jealous towards one another? Thorax it seems as though you are just like them...whenever someone has an ounce of confidence people immediately get classified as 'stuck up'. But when you have no self esteem, it is a problem then too.

Public Comments

Well maybe come across as stuck up or you seem cold or act like you are better than them. yes you are being shallow because beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I can tell I wouldn't get a long with you either.
In life there are going to be people who just dont like you, there loss! be happy , Im sure there are others who just love you .... :)
Why do you want to be freinds with A and C? Just make freinds with B and dont worry about the other two. Just keep being nice to B and eventually she'll realise your cooler then the other two anyway. "Wishing to be friends is quick work, but friendship is a slow-ripening fruit." Aristotle (4th century B.C.) You dont have to be freinds you just have to work together. Im sure you have other mates elsewhere anyway.
what you ought to do is be nice to them even though they arent nice to you, be steadfast in who you are, you are a hard working person and your probably a good person , dont play there game with them and dont let it effect you if you can help it, just do your job and everyday treat them as if they havnt done anything wrong to you, dont be FAKE like alot of girls do, everyone sees through that extra nice crap, just be normal and nice as you would be to anyone on the street that had not mistreated you. TRUST me this is the best approach, in time you will gain there respect, maybe not exhibit a but the other girls will see that you a good person. dont create a battle by confronting her,just ignore the childish BS
agreed with alex, cut some losses and concentrate on B, if they're trying to break you, break them eheheheh
Yes I agree with the first answer, you probably are young. Older , more mature people would not deal with these somewhat trivial (relatively) thing. Lots going on here. Sorry to sound sexist, but women are catty. Smile to your face, rip you apart when you leave the room. Lots of jealousies going on here too, and insecurities, on all sides. Face these facts....No matter how hard you try, or wish or hope, not everybody is going to like you. Write it off to bad chemistry, what ever. Secondly, life is unfair, deal with it. Worse things will happen in your life than this, maybe much worse, be tough, you will be okay. No, your boss DOES NOT want to heat about this. He is too busy trying to make a living. Bring it up to him, and I will guarantee YOU will be gone before the others. Be cool, do your job and get on with it..............Good luck!